性爱之后

[欢愉之后].After.Sex.2007.Festival.DVDRiP.XviD-iNTiMiD.avi

Christopher & Leslie:

"Doesn't work like that, Christopher. Love is not negotiable."

"Oh baby. Everything is negotiable."

"No, not love. Not love. Love is a guessing game. And that's the beauty of it. There's no guarantee. It's like, diving into a pool of water without knowing if it's shallow or deep. And sure yeah, if shallow you may end up hurt and paralyze from the neck down. But if it's deep, you know, it's a loop of faith. It's like, throwing yourself out there without any guarantees. Dude, that's what life is about. Ok, you know those carnival games? And you know some of them are really hard to win and some of them are super easy and everyone wins?"

"Sure."

"That's the difference between love and sex. Sex is the game where everyone wins a little prize and no one goes home a loser. And love is the game that it's really hard to win. But if you do, and you get to take home that life-size stuffed rhinoceros. It feels a whole lot better than taking home a cheap plastic key chain."

其实本片是看似有点色，但是挺严肃的探讨性的电影。但可惜的是，美国人的性观念，距离我们中国人实在太远了。
不要说同性恋或性派对，就是看两个人刚云雨之后，还要拼命反驳我们没有爱情，极力否定我对你有感觉，就让我不可理解。性，应该是两个人爱到浓时，无声胜有声的感情升华，那才是美好美妙的，而不是纯动物性的发泄。我觉得好莱坞电影总在传导少年破处还很酷的理念，实在不可理喻，但又客观存在。
感觉本片对性的探讨还仅限于表面，从不同人的侧面来表现人对性、爱的观点，但只是一种反映缺乏深度的思考。

完事过后，时间指向午夜
也就是通常所说的零点
你终于抽完了一根不能说短的香烟
疲倦，和着不能说出的疲倦
在你的脸上交替变幻

秒针小心翼翼地指向新一点
仿佛你不再属于它们的时间
你眨了一下眼，又眨了一下眼
灯光在窗外一闪而过
黑暗中一种浸泡了的寂静

完事过后，就那么孤单的一秒
你总是迫不及待地从床上跳了下来
在狭小的房间里四处走走看看
空气里全是潮湿的云的味道
你找不到那个一开始就躲起来的

人。就不要去接近那面镜子
它比你想象的更要脆弱
有人说：我们的灵魂会因此变得异常薄
许多次，我光着身子坐在它的前面
有一次，我竟然看见眼前的肉体消失

完事过后，只剩下一些冰冷的液体
或许，它比我们更加接近现实
更加熟悉每一种沐浴露的香味
那个时候我们似乎走得更远了
当它的冰冷停留在你刚刚愈合的身体

外面。夜色抚平了一切
我终于接受了自己偶尔不在的某种事实
在这一秒里我似乎过了很多世
而你也刚巧是赶到了那儿
没有早一步，也没有晚一步……

PS：末两句出自于张爱玲的《爱》

内容全，男男女女的都有，各个年龄段的都有，各个职业的，跨越人种的，超越国籍的，几小段的故事。可惜讨论的都是些残羹冷炙，没新的东西，拿袋饼干边吃边看吧

　Love is not negotiable. Love is a guessing game. And that's the beauty of it. There's no guarantees. It's like, diving into a pool of water without knowing if it's shallow or deep. And sure yeah, if it's shallow you end up hurt and paralyzed from neck down. But if it's deep, you know, it's a leap of faith. It's like, throwing yourself out there without any guarantees. That's what life is about. Ok, you know those carnival games? And you know some of them are really hard to win and some of them are super easy and everyone wins? It's just, that's the difference between love and sex. Sex is the game where everyone wins a little prize and no one goes home a loser, and love is the game that's really hard to win. But if you do, and you get to take home that life-size stuffed rhinoceros. It feels a whole lot better than taking home a shitty little plastic key chain.